A Sissy’s View on Orgasm Denial
In the last 6 months, I’ve seen a lot of stuff about orgasm denial posted on the internet by strokerboys, so I thought I might post something about it from a little different point of view.  A sissy’s point of view, to be exact.
OK, you’re probably wondering why a sissy would be interested in orgasm denial.  Well sissies enjoy a good “O� every bit as much as the next guy, and if the ability to have one whenever you feel like it goes away, pretty soon I start climbing the walls just like the stokerboys do.  It’s a pretty awesome tool in the right hands, and the right hands for me belong to my Mistress, Princess Grace.
At first, denial sounded like just another cute little fetish that a lot of boys seemed to be having fun with, and so I thought it might be something I might like to try.  I knew next to nothing about it before Princess found me and took me in as one of her pets, but with her help, I learned.  I stuck my toe in the water, found the water to be warm, and so I dove in. 
I’m a submissive, and one of my big needs is to give over complete control to my Mistress.  This also fits pretty well with her desire to have that control.  Being out of control of one of my basic primal needs is not easy sometimes, but knowing that it pleases her makes it also please me.  Another thing that denial does very well is to make me focus fully on my Mistress.  She owns my orgasms, and now when she allows me one while I’m alone it’s good, but if she’s there on the phone with me when I release, it goes to a whole new level and becomes fantastic.
One interesting thing that I have observed is the change in how soon the want and need to have another orgasm returns after being allowed release.  Princess told me this would occur, and she was right!  After the first release that she allowed me, I didn’t really feel the need to have another for almost a week.  After each release, the period got shorter and shorter until now, I feel an almost desperate need to orgasm again almost as soon as the first one is over.  The feeling of desperation is a very strong incentive for begging and pleading, and my Mistress enjoys that quite a bit.
So draw your own conclusions, but to me it seems like it doesn’t make much of a difference whether you’re a sissy or a strokerboy.  The need to experience an orgasm is universal.   I can’t yet say how it’s affected me in other areas of my life because it is still so new, but for a submissive like me, the satisfaction I get from pleasing Princess Grace by giving her control of my orgasms makes any discomfort worthwhile.
jemmie